As for playing a girl pirate - I DO NOT LIE about who I am. I don't conceal that I'm a man playing Eliza. If a guy hits on her, I let him down easy in a whisper.
However, I do occasionally flirt with other girls (ones I've confirmed are actually girl players and friends). But, I try not to be public about it because that might be a little much for nearby younguns.
So, if you see Eliza - sorry but she's not looking for a boyfriend!
Too many people are playing POTCO trying to hook up, I think.
EC