I think both types of servers would be fabulous, and I'd take either or both if they'd give them to us and be happy. I'd never use the PVP server myself, but it'd be good to have it for those who like PVP. And I personally get tired of "DO U HAVE A BF?!?" and related statements or queries. I know and am constantly reminded it's geared toward a younger audience, but I am allowed delusional wishes and fantasies of my perfect POTCO game like everyone else.
As I've said, I deal with what I don't like in the game because I enjoy playing. One has to take the bad along with the good. (And sometimes put the bad on ignore or report them if they are particularly rude... =P ) Rarely do the 'don't likes' outweigh the 'likes' of the game. But if I had my druthers in the Caribbean, I'd want an Open Chat only server as an option (not requirement for Open Chat), because of personal preference. Disney will likely never institute either type of server and people will always exploit and abuse the game in some fashion. Such is the way of the world, I suppose.
Also, as far as the original post is concerned, thanks to everyone who replied. I've not had much issue with anything lately, but I've not been on much during a 'rush-hour' time frame, either. (Thankfully.)