PICK ME! PICK ME!
You could sit here and watch the guilds come to you, but that wouldn't do any good - they're just looking for new members, while your looking for a guild that may fit your liking. I highly suggest that you just look around the Guilds and Clans we have here on POF, and see if any meet your criteria. After you find one that looks good, PM the GM, and see if you can "test it out," to see how you like it.
Best of luck, mate