Even though Dark Pixie explained this to you very well on the other thread, I'll take the part about the Usergroup straight from the Usergroup thread in our subforum:
How to join our Guild Usergroup:
1. Click
here to go manage your Group Memberships here on POF.
2. Find Partners N Crime in the list of guilds, and click on "Join Group" opposite of the guild name. Then scroll down a bit, and hit the bit button at the bottom of that section that says "Join Group."
3. All you need to do is wait for me to approve you in to the guild, which usually shouldn't be more than a day or two. Once approved, you can go back to the Group Memberships page, and identify yourself with the guild, by scrolling down, finding Partners N Crime, and marking "Identify me as a member of this group."
4. Once you do all of that, you'll get this nice little image next to your name: