Perhaps you should have told her that you are not in her guild, and that choosing friends based on an affiliation is foolhardy. You select your friends based on who YOU like, and not whom OTHERS like.
I give them the question about why should I be your friend, and 9 times out of 10... they run off!
Added: I agree with Samantha
Zeppers lvl40
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