Since we werent asked to pick the MOST annoying thing...
All of the above...
The cirumstances of the situation could easily make one weigh more over another.
Selecting one however, would be more or less reflecting acceptance of the others (in my opinion).
Asking to be an officer, asking for help, is not a problem, persistence after being told no, this is what becomes annoying.
Constantly TP'ing to someone is not necessarily a problem, it depends on what you do when you get there.
Recruiting for another guild, spamming chat, and swearing/insulting members... well these things are just automatic DONTs....