TPing to me the second I sign on expecting me to go plunder, or sending me a whisper that says only "COME TO ME NOW!"
I think i find that to be the most annoying part of the player interaction in the game. 3 or 4 of my friends, who for the most part are good competant players, TP to me the instant i come on line. My pirate needs a couple of minutes to settle in, get some coffee, check his ammo, etc etc. LOL
And there is one guildie who is always saying "come to me". a simple reason along with the request would go a long way me thinks.
But i guess i do have to remember it is a game and many of the players are young kids so...as annoying as it is...i'm learning to live with it.