where is it?

[Lady Freckles]

To join the chat/trivia channels quickly, you can always use the direct link on the homepage of POF.

On the upper right hand side of the homepage, you'll see a box to enter a nickname. Choose the nickname you want (make sure it follows site rules and has no spaces) and then click the Chat Now button. It will open up the basic Java chat.

Once there, if you have more questions, an OP (person with @ symbol by their name) can help you out.

Personally, I prefer to use mIRC for the chat channels, but that's up to you.