Proper Procedure?

[skullduggery bones]

I quite often get booted whilst on board and I'd like my ship to be used by whoever's onboard. I'm lucky enough to be able to afford 2 of the big ships and if my connection breaks I'd like all those on board to have a good go with it.
Hey ho its only a few bob to get it repaired.
The thing that REALLY annoys me is when i've parked my ship and am firing the top cannon with others onboard, one of their friends decides to pop aboard, and what's the first thing they do............ take the wheel without asking!!!!!! Oooooh that is a heinous crime, one which really makes the blood boil.
They think just cuz there's no one on the wheel it's theirs for the taking.
Don't they realise that a stopped ship is easier to fire from !?!?!?